How to Prevent Your Child(ren) From S3xual Abuse
We now live in a world where child(ren), male or female get s3xually abused or molested easily by people meant to protect, guide and secure them. It have became worse that some parents now s3xually harassed their own child(ren).
Recently, I came across a disheartening story of a man been jailed for sleeping with his own daughter. According to the wife, the girl was just 8years old. During the interview, she said;
Me and my husband had an agreement of becoming a full housewife before we got married. We had this agreement so that I can fully look take care of our children and grow them rightfully.
Months after having our first child and only child which turned out to be a girl, my husband started suggesting I take a job in order to support him financially.
I had a deep thought about it and decided to concur due to our present situation. Oftentimes, I leave the baby with my husband till I return from work. On this faithful day, I came back from work and met my husband on top of my daughter. This was like a dream to me and I fainted.
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According to the woman after investigating the husband, he has been having an affair with the daughter since 5years.
Several cases proves that victims are usually a girl child but this days, both male and female child are now victims of circumstance.
In order to protect or rather save your child from being s3xual abused by adults around them, please grow with them the following tips at an early stage.
How to Prevent Your Child(ren) From S3xual Abuse at an Early Stage
- Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including uncles.
- Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.
- Never allow any adult refer to your child as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’
- Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.
- Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.
- Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.
- Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don’t, the society will teach them the wrong values.
- It is always advisable that you go through any new Materials, like the cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.
- Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.
- Teach your 3 years old how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins at home and it all begins with you).
- Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).
- Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out in crowd to defend themselves.
- Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them that you can defend them.
Final thoughts on s3xual Abuse;
When a girl child is defiled at an early stage, she gets high libido and becomes a s3x addict.
When a male child is s3xually abused at an early stage, it sticks to his brain, disturb him always, turn him into an addict and destroy his future. Save your child today to avoid regrets in the future.
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